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What is it like being a second wife?

By Angela Vassalo on June 24, 2014 in Blog, Uncategorized

quote-pic-1People often ask me this question. I sometimes reply by saying, it is like entering into a Haunted House. Remember when you were a child, and you were taken to an Amusement Park. Inevitably you would always come across the dreaded Haunted House. You wanted to go in there, but you were nervous and cautious. You had feelings of excitement, fear, and nerves all rolled into one.

Then you would ask yourself what is holding me back?? Maybe it’s the fear of the unknown? You really want to go in there, but you’re scared. Deep down you know everything will be ok, and you will come out the other end. But, it causes you so much anxiety and nervous tension.

At the front gate it says “Enter at Your Own Risk” it also, says, “This ride is not for the faint hearted”.

Do not attempt to go on this ride if you

  1. Have a Weak Heart.
  2. Are not Physically Fit or Mentally Strong.

We’ll my friends, this is what it is like when you become a second wife, or stepparent, and are entering into The Village!” you need to “Enter at Your Own Risk!!”

Are you up for it? Can your heart handle it? Are you physically and mentally fit enough? This ride may not be for you; it may be all too scary and stressful for you. But, if you knew what to expect, and maybe how to handle anything scary that jumps out at you unexpectedly. Would this give you more confidence and inner strength to take this ride?

That is what my book is all about, it’s about giving you the know how and advice upfront, to help you through all the unexpected moments that will jump out at you on your journey as a second wife and stepmother. And give you the courage to take the RIDE of your Life!

What are you waiting for; it’s time to step forward and “Enter at your Own Risk.” There may be some things, that will scare the living daylights out of you, but one thing I know for sure, you will survive, and you will be proud of yourself for having the courage to enter!

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